Sadly another American icon has fallen on his sword.
By now you've learned more than you ever wanted to know about Tiger Woods and his questionable decision making.
Like other icons before him, and undoubtedly, others that will come after him, Tiger's tale is not unprecedented, nor is it limited to icons and idols. Sure, the bigger the name the bigger the splash when bad decision making leads to trouble. But there's a valuable lesson here if you're willing to look deeper than the sensational aspect of the story.
Over a course of years, I think ONE thing was at the root of what would later become the problem that led to Tiger's fall from grace. The ONE thing that everyday people like you and I are as susceptible to falling victim to it as our sports idols often do.
In Tiger's case, his kryptonite may well end up being that he didn't have someone in his inner circle that was strong enough to be that guy that stands up and says "Hey Tiger, that's not what you should be doing." It takes guts to be that guy.
Many times that guy gets sent packing.
Many times that guy's advice gets ignored or minimized.
But, many more times than not, having a that guy keeps us centered, which, helps us avoid making bad decisions that we end up regretting later.
There's an old saying that goes "Coulda Woulda and Shoulda" are the three wisest guys on the planet.
Looking back I'm sure Tiger would have rather had those three guys in his inner circle of advisors.
I run into this a few times of year with seller clients.
They profess they want me to be that guy when they hire me.
But, sadly, like Tiger, they won't accept advice and counsel. They're going to do what they're going to do regardless. If their home isn't selling they'll rationalize that it's everything but the real reason, bad decision making. It's hard to be that guy when your boss signs your checks. It takes backbone. It takes character beyond the norm to risk getting canned for your honesty. But in the end having that guy nearby will be the best way to insure you don't become close friends with Mr. Coulda, Woulda and Shoulda.
And so it goes...